Something to ponder...from a friend...
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
"Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her
because
she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my
spouse is not."
Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more
charming or sensitive.
** More alluring.
** More thoughtful.
** Richer.
** Have greater sex appeal.
** And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and
go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.
Because no wife or husband is perfect.
Because a spouse will only have 90% of what you're looking for.
So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing
10%.
Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself
drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter.
Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of
garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales
representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high
heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt.
Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat
when
you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.
But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.
Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!
Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all the years that you
have been with each other.
The storms you have weathered together.
The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple.
The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of
memories that you've accumulated as lovers.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you
already
have.
But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.
Are you like the economy airline
The main message:
If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are is
FIRST CLASS!
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ina sighed at 1:34 PM
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